Widow's Kiss

The Widow's Kiss is a rich, aromatic, and complex cocktail that balances the fruity depth of Calvados with the sweet, herbal notes of Bénédictine and Yellow Chartreuse. A dash of Angostura bitters adds a spicy complexity, tying the flavors together. It is a spirit-forward drink, served "up" in a chilled coupe glass, perfect for slow sipping after a meal. The result is a beautifully balanced and warming cocktail with a silky, viscous texture.
Widow's Kiss

Preparation

Preparation time: 3 minutes

Preparation time
Difficulty

Drink Classification

The Widow's Kiss is a classic cocktail, categorized as a sophisticated, spirit-forward drink from the late 19th century. Due to its rich, herbal, and warming character, it is also perfectly classified as a digestif, traditionally enjoyed after a meal to aid digestion and provide a contemplative sipping experience.

Serving

The Widow's Kiss is served cold and straight up in a pre-chilled coupe or cocktail glass. It is a potent, spirit-forward sipper meant to be enjoyed slowly.
Serving size
Approximately 90 ml / 3 oz (before dilution)
Alcohol content
Approximately 30-35% ABV
Alcohol strength
Serving temperature
Cold
Glass type
Coupe
Glass treatment
Chilled

Backstory

The recipe first appeared in George J. Kappeler's 1895 book "Modern American Drinks: How to Mix and Serve All Kinds of Cups and Drinks". Kappeler was the head bartender at the prestigious Holland House Hotel in New York City. The name "Widow's Kiss" is evocative of the Gilded Age, suggesting a drink that is both alluring and perhaps a little dangerous, a common theme for cocktails of that era.
Origin
United States, circa 1895. The drink originated in New York City and was documented by George Kappeler at the Holland House Hotel.

Widow's Kiss

The cocktail is consistently known by its original name, "Widow's Kiss," and does not have any widely recognized alternative names. Its evocative name is a product of the late Victorian era in which it was created. It has remained unchanged since its first publication in 1895.
Original name
Widow's Kiss

Characteristics overview

The Widow's Kiss presents a complex bouquet of herbal and orchard fruit aromas with a silky, warming texture. Its flavor is a harmonious blend of sweet apple brandy, honeyed herbs, and spice, leading to a long and satisfying finish.
Flavor
Herbal, Apple, Honeyed, Spicy, Slightly sweet, Complex
Aroma
Aromatic, Herbal, Orchard fruit, Anise, Spice
Taste balance
Sweet, Spiritous, Herbal
Aftertaste
Long, Warming, Complex, Herbal
Fizziness
Still, None
Color appearance
Deep golden, Amber, Clear
Texture
Silky, Smooth, Viscous
Seasonality
Warming, Autumnal, Wintery

Flavor intensity & Experience

This is a flavor-forward cocktail with pronounced herbal, fruity, and sweet notes balanced by a strong alcohol backbone. It is a rich and intense sipper, designed for those who enjoy complex spirit profiles.
Sweetness
Saltiness
Sourness
Bitterness
Spiciness
Fruitiness
Creaminess
Carbonation

Ingredients

This cocktail requires three key spirits: Calvados, Yellow Chartreuse, and Bénédictine, plus a dash of Angostura bitters. These ingredients combine to create a complex, herbal, and powerfully aromatic flavor profile.
  • Calvados45 ml / 1.5 oz
    A French apple brandy from Normandy. High-quality applejack can be substituted.
  • Yellow Chartreuse22.5 ml / 0.75 oz
    A sweet, herbal liqueur made by Carthusian Monks, with notes of honey, saffron, and anise.
  • Bénédictine D.O.M.22.5 ml / 0.75 oz
    A French herbal liqueur with notes of honey and spice, made from a secret recipe of 27 plants and spices.
  • Angostura Aromatic Bitters2 dashes
    Adds spicy complexity and helps to balance the sweetness of the liqueurs.

Ice type

  • Cubed

Mixing equipments

You will need standard bar equipment for a stirred cocktail. A mixing glass, a bar spoon for chilling and dilution, a jigger for accuracy, and a strainer are all essential.
  • Mixing glass - for stirring the ingredients with ice.
  • Bar spoon - for stirring correctly to chill and dilute.
  • Jigger - for accurate measurement of ingredients.
  • Hawthorne or Julep strainer - to strain the chilled liquid from the ice.

Instructions

The Widow's Kiss is a stirred cocktail, prepared by combining all liquid ingredients in a mixing glass with ice. It is stirred until perfectly chilled and diluted, then strained into a chilled coupe glass and garnished.
1. Chill a coupe or cocktail glass by filling it with ice and water, or by placing it in the freezer for at least 15 minutes.
2. Combine the Calvados, Yellow Chartreuse, Bénédictine, and Angostura bitters in a mixing glass.
3. Fill the mixing glass two-thirds full with cubed ice.
4. Stir briskly with a bar spoon for about 20-30 seconds, until the outside of the mixing glass is well-chilled and frosted.
5. Empty the ice from your serving glass.
6. Strain the contents of the mixing glass into the chilled coupe glass.
7. Garnish with a high-quality maraschino cherry.

Garnishing

The traditional garnish is a single maraschino cherry, which adds a touch of visual flair and sweetness. Alternatively, a lemon twist can be expressed over the drink to brighten its aromatics.
  • Maraschino Cherry - Drop one high-quality, stemmed cherry into the finished drink.
  • Lemon Twist (alternative) - Express the oils from a lemon peel over the surface of the drink for added aroma.

Dietary Information

This cocktail is caffeine-free, dairy-free, egg-free, and gluten-free. It is not considered vegan because Bénédictine liqueur contains honey, but it is suitable for vegetarians.
✓ Contains alcohol
✓ Caffeine-free
✓ Dairy-free
✓ Egg-free
✓ Soy-free
✓ Nut-free
✓ Gluten-free
✕ Vegan-friendly
✓ Vegetarian-friendly

Nutrition information

This cocktail is relatively high in sugar and calories due to the two sweet liqueurs, containing approximately 240 kcal and 18g of sugar per serving. It should be enjoyed in moderation.
Calories
Averagely 220-250 kcal / 920-1046 kJ
Calories level
Carbohydrates
Averagely 15-20 g
Carbohydrate level
Sugar
Averagely 15-20 g
Sugar level

Occasions

This drink is ideal for sophisticated occasions or as a contemplative after-dinner digestif. Its warming and complex character also makes it suitable for a quiet nightcap, particularly during autumn or winter evenings.
  • After-dinner drink
  • Sophisticated gathering
  • Quiet evening at home
  • Cocktail party

Pairing suggestions

The Widow's Kiss pairs beautifully with rich desserts like apple tart or dark chocolate, which complement its fruity and herbal notes. Its complexity also stands up well to the robust flavors of aged hard cheeses or a fine cigar, making it an excellent after-dinner companion.
  • Dark chocolate
  • Hard cheeses like aged Comté or Gruyère
  • Apple tart or Tarte Tatin
  • A medium-bodied cigar

The Widow's Kiss: An Alluring Sip of Herbal Complexity

The Widow's Kiss is a sophisticated, spirit-forward classic from the late 19th century. It masterfully combines the fruity depth of Calvados with the complex herbal sweetness of Yellow Chartreuse and Bénédictine. Served chilled and straight up, this amber-hued cocktail is a perfect digestif or a contemplative sipper for those who appreciate bold, intricate flavors. It offers a memorable journey through orchard fruit, honey, and alpine herbs, all in one elegant glass.

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